Where in Phoenix can I find people who are smart, sophisticated, cultured and mannered?

Well, you certainly must not be one of the well-educated population that you referred to. "Seek and ye shall find" is a phrase you should familiarize yourself with. You obviously came on here to get attention (speaks well of your anatomy) and act like a pompous fool. So you go play your little games and go back to dirty old crowded Boston. You are not living in reality.