I just want to know just because im a black woman and i dont date black men why am i considered selfhate?

Well today i asked My very first question on Yahoo and within a minute i get responses some good and bad well to the people that dont understand i can date whom ever and why is it when blacks date out they are self haters anu other race its ok i see that black people down their own race when they date out im not a sellout self hating because if i was i would bleach My beautiful Brown skin dont you think its things like this that gets people no where ir relationships ar� beautiful just like same race ones but the last time i checked race is called the human race this one is based on My first one no dumb answers please saying sellout Internet wars ar� so overrated btw im into lat�n music and art so i do things alot different im just on the web for today about this question im pretty sure i,ll get responses in a sec